Review: For the Love of Friends: A Novel

For the Love of Friends: A Novel by Sara Goodman Confino
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

If you loved, or even liked, the film 27 Dresses then I think you will love this - same same but different.

Lily Weiss is a writer, working for a prestigious science institute. It's her job to make complex (and often boring) science accessible to normal people. She's good at it, but it's not what she dreamed of when she used to write stories at night under her duvet as a child.

Her work BFF Caryn asks her to be a bridesmaid when she finally gets her boyfriend to propose. Caryn and Lily don't really mix in the same circles but Caryn begs Lily to save her from the toxicity of her other bridesmaids, including her sister-in-law-to-be, and Lily can't say no. But then things snowball, her college BFF also announces she is getting married and asks Lily to be a bridesmaid to protect her from her overbearing mother. Then her closest friend Meghan also announces she is getting married and guess what? You got it, she wants Lily to be a bridesmaid. Next her younger brother announces his engagement, and as a way to get her new sister-in-law he wants Lily to be a bridesmaid! Lily is at Meghan's engagement party when her baby sister, who still lives at home with their parents, announces she too is engaged. Suddenly at 32, Lily feels over the hill if even her foetus of a sister is engaged. The only solution is to mainline Chardonnay which leads to her waking up in bed with one of the groomsmen and no recollection of the night before.

At first things are hectic but manageable, Lily even manages to become adept at helping brides to choose their favourite dress (and not just the one their bitchy friends or controlling mothers like). But then the bridezilla demands start: buy this hideously expensive bridesmaid's dress; dye your hair; lose weight; fly to Chicago for dress shopping; fly to Mexico for a wedding; fly to Paris for a bachelorette party; etc. In frustration, because Lily would never say these things out loud, and in an attempt to earn some money to help her pay for all the dresses, shoes, gifts, parties etc, Lily starts up an anonymous blog called Bridesmania where she recounts the more absurd things her brides are doing.

Oh, and one of Meghan's groomsmen, Alex, is really sweet and charming but Meghan has ruled no drama, and after sleeping with one groomsman Lily can't risk any more disruption to the wedding so Alex must go firmly into the friend zone.

I think it will be fairly obvious to any reader/watcher of rom-coms, what is going to happen. But it's a fun read and Sara Goodman Confino walks a thin line between making the brides-to-be unreasonable but also showing that Lily's decision to take out her frustrations by writing a vitriolic blog was not the most appropriate response.

After DNFing so many books already this year (and with more on the horizon), this was a delight and proved to me that it's not me, it's the books. So if you fancy a light-hearted, hilarious, snarky wedding-themed rom-com that is absolutely ripe for being made into a movie then look no further. Highly recommended.

I received a free copy of this book from the publisher via NetGalley in return for an honest review.

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